I was watching a video on youtube by Ray Daniels http://youtu.be/wJEoiLA0GeU (he has a channel on there, its hilarious check it out) on this particular episode he talked about his theory about men on the downlow. What he basically said was that men on the downlow don't exist and I agree with him 110%. Why is that? Because the women who are with these men know they're GAY, they just overlooked the signs of their gayness. These women have always had suspicions about their men, they didn't just walk in on these men giving the pool-boy backshots one day and were shocked beyond belief that their man was gay. Girl bye, you knew this information before hand and just chose to ignore it. There are always signs, the signs are all around you, its in your gut just follow it. Now I could go into detail about suspect behavior of your possibly gay man because I would like to think my gaydar is pretty on point ( I do live in Atlanta and your gaydar needs to be updated every two weeks here). But that's not what this is about, but I will give you few. If your man takes two hours to get ready and you take one, and y'all started to get ready at the same time something ain't right. If your man is to into his body, especially if he's always fixated on his a$$, there's a problem. Okay, here's the last one if you get in your man's car and his cd collection consist of these people Beyonce, Keyshia Cole, Keri Hilson or insert whatever female artist you like, then its a wrap dude is gay. There are always signs and if you even question this dude's sexuality even for a second, well my dear your man is probably gay. Because wherever there's a little smoke there's fire.
Remember when Terry McMillan got her a$$ on Oprah's couch with her husband and sat up there with him next to her with his lip gloss poppin and eyebrows arched sky high, and wanted us to believe that she was married for 8 years (I'm not sure how long they were married) to this man and didn't know he was gay? Girl get the f*ck out of here, we don't believe you, you need more people. A lot of women dealing with these suspect men, in my opinion are so desperate for a man, that they'll take any, man even a gay one. Their reasoning for this, hell if I know. Maybe they're that girl that always has to have somebody or cue Beyonce... they're scared of lonely. Whatever the case may be these women know what they're doing and who they're doing it with. Nobody can hide their true colors forever, eventually you'll show tell-tell signs of who you really are. Sometimes they're blatant and other times they're subtle but they're signs nevertheless.
Now do I think that men can be in the closet about their sexuality? Of course! Some men are so deep in the closet they're finding last year's Christmas presents. And to these men I say come out and free yourself and the rest will follow. Its 2011 nobody cares if you're gay, and if they do well f*ck them. Be who you are and stop trying to repress who you are, who wants to live that way? Now to the women that deal with these men even though you see the signs and choose to overlook them, I'm calling you out too. Now if you chose to live this lie and carry on with this dude even though you know in your heart he's gay. Whether you ever admit your suspicions to anyone or not, your a$$ knows he's gay because you're both after the same thing which is d%ck. And you know how it feels to chase it and so does he because you see him chasing it in front of your eyes. So if you chose to be this man's beard that's fine. But no longer can you play the victim and get on your soapbox talking about this man deceived you, and you had no idea he was gay, after you caught him slobbing on Ben's knob, girl tell that tale to somebody else that believes you to because you gets no love over here.
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